Verdict Rendered


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It’s not official yet. There is still some paper work to be done and some hoops to jump through, but the adoption peeps are recommending our application be approved.

Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you.

I will say this was by far the MOST humiliating experience of my life to have my personality ripped apart in front of a group of strangers and my husband. Turns out I really am bat shit crazy.

But not the ‘throw me into a padded room and wrestle with the straight jacket’ variety of crazy.

More the ‘control freak, aggressive, chew your faces off and eat your young, strong personality’ type of crazy.

I’ll take it.

Oh, and the adoption peeps know about the blog.

Ya. Good times. Nothing like digging your own grave and eating a little crow.

Let’s all say hello and thank you to the nice ladies who I have mocked and terrorized over the course of the year, shall we?

I now think they shoot rainbows and sunbeams out their backsides.

I’m nothing if not fickle. But I’ll write more about that later, when I’ve recovered from my humiliation and come down from my euphoric high of being told I’m gonna be a mommy again.

With no morning sickness, hemorrhoids or swollen belly.

Don’t hate on me all you pregnant ladies.

I’m crazy. The report said so.

And thank you once again, for all the well wishes, support and emails you have sent me. It kept me warm and fuzzy as I rocked back and forth and listened to just how certifiable the athletically trim and charming psych dude thought I was.

141 Responses to “Verdict Rendered”

  1. sara Says:

    i have read your blog from the sidelines for months now. i am so inspired by you and you zest for life! i am thrilled for you and the fam and the new addition to your clan. good luck and many well wishes!

  2. Nancy Says:

    AWESOME!!!! I have been checking my feed reader and hitting “refresh” since yesterday afternoon. I am so happy for you and your family. Congratulations, Mom!!

  3. Staci Hyun Says:

    Congradulations!!!! What fantastic news. I am thrilled for all of you.

  4. Bennie Says:

    YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I’ve checked your blog about 40 times since yesterday given that I was more nervous than a chihuahua in a Korean deli. Crazy parents make good parents. I should know.

  5. Jan Says:

    Just…..Yay!!!!!!

  6. motherkitty Says:

    T, wonderful, wonderful news. You crazy? Are they nuts? How could they think a clean, wholesome, fun-loving, attention and loving mother could be bat-shit crazy? Doesn’t everyone have tats and nipple-piercings? No, so oh well.

    On a more personal note, I really am so very glad for you and Boo, and Fric and Frac, that I really don’t know what to say. I’m sure the process will go much faster now and you will have your new baby before the end of the year. Won’t that be a super Christmas present???

    Much love, L. ooxxoo

  7. Bon Says:

    yay! i’ve been checking obsessively for, like, fifteen hours now, you know.

    beaming for you. beaming.

    that child will be so blessed, and so loved.

  8. Lisa Says:

    Yay! That’s awesome. I don’t even know you except through this blog but I was all set to be really pissed off if you weren’t approved. Congratulations!

  9. Jen Says:

    I too have been obsessively checking for updates. True I don’t know you from adam and you don’t know me but in my own way I am ELATED for you and your family. Words just can’t express how wonderful it is that you are going to be a mommy to some child who needs it so badly. Really to quote Jan…Just…Yay!!!

  10. Boomom Says:

    WAAAAAAA-HOOOOOOOOO!! CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I’m sitting here with tears in my eyes ( at work - I can blame it on allergies or better yet, diesel fumes…) Have been hitting refresh like a mad woman since I came in…

    Of COURSE they approved you - THEY would have been the crazy ones if they hadn’t !!

    This Texas mama is sooo wishing you a new family member to arrive SOON !!!

  11. Lori Says:

    I am sooo happy for you, and for your new wee’un. I’ve read every single one of your posts and have been rooting for you so hard! Bearhugs!

  12. Ms. Crafty Wanna-Be Says:

    I KNEW IT! You’re the best T….and it’s hard for that NOT to show.

    CONGRATULATIONS!

    I feel like having a “baby” shower for you! Hard prayers pay off!

    Yay to you, Boo & Fric/Frac. The new addition will love you to pieces.

  13. metro mama Says:

    Hooray! Hooray! Hooray! I’ve been waiting anxiously and didn’t want to deluge you with email. Congratulations! I’m so happy for you. Hooray!

  14. Patty House Says:

    Yee Haw! I’ve been dreading reading your blog for fear of bad news on my bday…Oh me of little faith! =) Congratulations (not on being crazy, but about being approved.) ;)

  15. Liz Says:

    I’m a complete lurker, not sure I’ve ever commented but read religiously. I’m glad your being ‘batshit crazy’ is OK :) Congrats on you impending motherhood again. Good Luck!!

  16. Jess Says:

    Long time lurker…so excited for you and even more excited for the new addition. S/he is so freakin’ lucky to have such a fierce momma.

    much love from this stranger

  17. daysgoby Says:

    WAHOOOOOOO!

    All right, T!

    I can’t WAIT for this next chapter!

  18. Sue Says:

    YEEEHAAAWWW!!!!!!! I’m so, so, happy for all of you.

  19. Roth Family Says:

    Big CONGRATS!

  20. Amy Says:

    Yay!!! I was so nervous clicking the link to your site knowing it would probably announce the verdict but yay!! Great news!

  21. Laural Dawn Says:

    I had to come back and check today. I am beyond thrilled for you!!! (though, as I am currently dealing with morning sickness a little jealous that you get to keep your flat stomach and not barf today).
    You deserve it!!!!

  22. jackie Says:

    I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again –I really think them knowing about your blog could only help your case. Anyone who reads it can tell you are just an awesome person through and through. Congrats, T!

  23. Wendy Says:

    Yeah, I will do my happy dance for you.

  24. ie Says:

    I have my screen set to half size so I’m not being blatant, so when I scrolled down I just saw the red color of the stamp, and not actually what it said. My tummy plummeted. Then I saw the word.

    I’ll just add my “WWWOOO freaking HOOO” to the list. Rock on!

  25. kgirl Says:

    Yeeeeee!
    I got shivers when I saw that nice red stamp. Congratulations to the whole fam - casa kgirl is so, so, so, so happy for you all. Now go practice your hoop-jumping and let’s get this show on the road!

  26. carrie Says:

    I am jumping up and down for you right now!!!! For ALL of you!

  27. Mrs. Chicken Says:

    The best news I’ve heard all day. And you can’t be crazy if you know you’re crazy.

  28. Trailin' Says:

    WHOO! I about shat myself when I read the part that said that they knew about your blog.

    Congratulations to you and your family =] I’ve been waiting to see this post since I read the first one about your attempt to adopt. Good luck with paperwork going quickly. As others have said, hopefully you’ll have your new little one by the end of the year =]

  29. Hetha Says:

    Fuck Yeah!

  30. Leah Says:

    Just recently started lurking but wanted to come out and say congratulations and God bless you and your family. There is nothing wrong with being a strong crazy woman!!! I enjoy reading your blog tremendously.

  31. Alena Says:

    I’m so happy for you, T!

  32. Mrs. Chicky Says:

    Whoohoo! Congratulations my crazy, eat-your-face-off friend. I knew that strong personality of yours would pay off.

    But for the record, I’d rather be crazy than deal with morning sickness. Crazy = colorful.

  33. Above Average Joe Says:

    Congratulations!

  34. Tamblina Says:

    Congrats, Congrats, Congrats! I’m very excited for you & your family!

  35. Kristen Says:

    Fan-fucking-tastic.

    Or. Good Show (if they’re reading, you know)

  36. LarryLilly Says:

    I guess those pics of your son in the bird cage didnt hurt you any LOL

    Great job, but one small item to point out…

    You were/are a mommy

    the use of “mommy again” is an oxymoron

    KOTC

  37. MamaMichelsBabies Says:

    Omg YAY!!! Congrats!!!

    Both on the bat shit crazy (now your cetrifiable) and the approval!!!

    What on earth did they SAY about the blog??

    So so happy for you guys!

  38. Elly Says:

    Congratualtions!!! I hope all the bureaucrats read the nice comments we have all made about them lately. If they have an ounce of reality in them, they secretly love your blog, and are lurking at the moment. I was praying for your family last night!

  39. Crystal Blake Says:

    Yay I am so so pleased for you. Congratulations seems inadequate, because there just aren’t words to describe how happy I am for you. Good luck I really hope you get that special little someone that will give you everything you have been hoping for (oh alright I know they can’t give you everything because they can’t ever replace your little bug) but they can help with the pain and make it more bearable. (((((hugs))))))

  40. Rose Says:

    Just DeLurkings to say……….Congrats!!!!!

  41. Kristine Says:

    I am so very happy for all of you!!! Yeah!

  42. Gerald Says:

    Like everyone else, I have been checking your site quite often to find out the results. Congratulations!

  43. Erika Jurney, Plain Jane Mom Says:

    AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  44. slouching mom Says:

    Best news I’ve heard in awhile!

  45. Bill Says:

    Short-time reader, but I’m catching up–I’ve been reading backwards, right now I’m involved with Jan ‘07, reading about the adoption folks.

    Happy for you and yours. I hope you get your new bundle of joy soon.

  46. Karly Says:

    Yay!! So happy for you guys! Congrats!

  47. Kyla Says:

    Oh T. That is WONDERFUL!! Tonight I’ll have a glass of wine and toast it your way.

    Hi, Adoption Peeps. We all luuuuurve you now. :)

  48. Lori Says:

    You know what? When I read that they didn’t know about your blog (before today) I kinda figured they’d find out. Do a simple google search. And I thought to myself that this blog is an asset. Seriously. When I read this blog I think what an intelligent, sassy, STRONG woman. What an inspiring story and family. And no matter what they read on here, you know it’s true, they know it’s true; rules are rules, and their asses are theirs in the end- I am pretty sure they were all secretly rooting for you to be approved. So congrats on the impending arrival and addition. I couldn’t have happened to a better mom. Or brother or sister. Or Boo. It just make me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Shucks.

    And for the record. I take xanax and I think I am pretty normal. You know… all things considered ;o ) I think everyone needs their own script and then maybe, just maybe, we could all get along.

  49. sam Says:

    Hooray!!!!!!! I knew you’d be approved and that you were bat shit crazy! But it’s all good!

    Now another little being to torture. Er… I mean LOVE.

    I can’t believe they know ’bout this little ol’ blog!

    But then again, this place was probably your saving grace if they’ve read anything that you’ve written about Bug.

    Love ya T.!

  50. Alley Cat Says:

    They know about the blog??? Wow. They must be crazy too!

    I am soooooo happy for you. I even shed a tear when I saw your approval stamps.

  51. amanda Says:

    Congratulations. Between this approval and Flotsam’s twins, it feels like the universe is setting itself back on an axis that allows the people who so well deserve it, to be parents.

    Fierce congratulatory hugs going out your way! Maybe you could say a little prayer that us knocked up ladies maybe get a break this time around from the hemorrhoids…

  52. Ree Says:

    I’m soooooo happy for you! You know why they approved you right? You have the same temperament as a Mama Bear. Perfect for raising a baby bear.

    Kisses and hugs to you Adoption Ladies, too. All of us believe you have rainbows and unicorns coming out your backsides.

  53. Assertagirl Says:

    I wondered if they knew about the blog…

    Just wanted to add my congratulations to the long list. I actually said, “PHEW” out loud when I saw your post!

  54. ali Says:

    best news i’ve heard in a while. i’m so happy for you!

  55. Smiling Mom Says:

    Oh man. Those ladies MUST have a sense of humor if they know about your blog. Fantastic news!! I’m so happy for you! How long until they allow you to adopt?

  56. Momo Fali Says:

    YAY!!!! That’s really great! Congratulations

  57. b*babbler Says:

    Holy f-ing crap! That’s magnificently awesome! The best news of the day!

    Woohooo!

    Hands up to all the crazy adoption-approving ladies and gents - you couldn’t have chosen better if you tried!

    And holy crap - they knew about the blog? Nice of them to save that shot for last!

    Now I’m going to take my exclamation! marks! and! run! (Grinning madly!)

  58. Flutter Says:

    congrats to you! How did they know about the blog?

  59. mamatulip Says:

    I still can’t believe they know about your blog.

    *snort*

    Congrats, girl. I knew it.

  60. Minnie Says:

    One of the reasons that I adore your blog is because you’re crazy. I mean that in a healthy, positive, child-rearing kind of way.
    Congratulations to you!

  61. Robin Says:

    Hell Yeah! Congratulations!

  62. Liz Says:

    Am also a lurker but this news has prompted me to delurk. FANTASTIC news for you all. This just goes to show there is goodness out there after all. What wise adoption folk. Can’t wait to hear all about your new wee one.

  63. MplsChica Says:

    Joining the ranks of delurkers to congratulate you and your family! I have read daily for the past several months and am inspired by what a solid, happy, real family you have. CONGRATULATIONS to you - and to that lucky kid who will be welcomed into your brood!

  64. Mysti Says:

    Awesome awesome news. I’m sure you love all of us lurkers coming out *now* of all times - but just wanted to say how happy this Texan redneck mommy is for you!

  65. Arkie Mama Says:

    Congratulations! Was keeping my fingers crossed for you.

    OK, you have to tell us what you said when they informed you that they knew about the blog…

  66. Hannah Says:

    Like so many here I’ve been checking back every half hour since yesterday morning, waiting impatiently for news. This is so, so awesome… I’m so happy for you, and Boo, and Fric and Frac, but most of all for that lucky kid out there who is going to land with the bestest family in redneck country…

    And at the risk of sounding maudlin, your Bug is happy too.

    Congratulations!!!

  67. Thumper Says:

    :::waves at the adoption people, simles at their decision:::

    Now, you gotta start working out or something, or you’ll strain something whilst jumping through those hoops…

  68. kat Says:

    SWEET!!! Congrats to you, Boo and Fric n Frac!!!!
    There’s something to be said for being batsh!t crazy and letting the blog world know it. Big HUGS!!!

    Thank you, kind adoption people for letting the RNM and family have a new kid or baby to love on!!! You won’t regret this decision - they’re good people with a lot of love to give.

  69. Liza Says:

    YOU MADE ME WORRY WITH THE NON-UPDATING! I WAS LITERALLY REFRESHING ALL NIGHT LONG! YOU SUCK MORE THAN THEIR WILDEST OF SPECULATIONS!

    Also, sweet merciful fuck, they’ve READ your BLOG? Bet YOUR face was red. Although I read your blog and was ready to load up the Animals and drive north just to picket their office if they didn’t approve you.

    Also, CONGRATULATIONS HOLY SHIT YOU’RE GONNA HAVE A NEW BABY!!!!!

  70. Liza Says:

    And the squirrel? OMG.

  71. Oh, The Joys Says:

    This is such great news! I am so glad to hear it!! (Though I knew they would approve you all along. I never doubted.)

    xo,
    Jess

  72. Dawn Says:

    Comgrats :) You’ll be great!

  73. amypalko Says:

    I am so pleased for you and your family! I’ve been a regular reader of your blog for several months now, and your writing frequently makes me laugh and cry in equal measure. Today, it was tears of happiness. Consequently, I have just named your blog as one of the blogs that make me smile. You can check it out here. Congratulations, again :-)

  74. SciFi Dad Says:

    Congratulations. All kidding aside, I’m sure you will make that child feel like one of your own in no time.

  75. toyfoto Says:

    I knew it was going to happen. I’m thrilled for you. THRILLED.

  76. Heather Says:

    Thrilled for your family, and for the little one you’ll be caring for. So glad it came through for you and they saw how much you wanted this and how much you have to offer.

  77. Binky Says:

    AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS! I think what the adoption peeps are recognizing is the fact that ALL moms are crazy. Every single one.

  78. FishyGirl Says:

    Woo hoo!!!! I am SO HAPPY for you, T. It’s obvious you are crazy, but it’s clearly a loveable crazy, and I’m glad they saw that. That’s gonna be one lucky baby, it is.

  79. Worker Mommy Says:

    I was extremely nervous when I clicked over - but how delighted am I that it said approved! So amazingly wonderful. I can’t tell you how happy I am for you.

    Dang, you’d think this was my adoption approval. Congrats to you all!

  80. Lisa Milton Says:

    Woohoo! So so so happy for you, and that soon to be yours kiddo. Now, get celebrating.

  81. BetteJo Says:

    Um .. congratulations are definitely in order but, well - would it be too selfish to say I am totally looking forward to the new baby posts? How much fun will THAT be!
    Very very happy for you - and US!!

  82. Amy Lawson Says:

    congrats! that’s fantastic news!
    I’m new here…so freaking funny :o)

  83. Beth Says:

    I’m so happy for you! :-) And how did they know about the blog? Relatives tell them? Ah, but you’re on your way now! YAY!!

  84. Sheila Says:

    Congratulations! I am so happy for you and your family. I have enjoyed lurking and reading your blog for a while now.

  85. Mary Says:

    I don’t even know you, but cried when I read “APPROVED”. When you posted “Judgment Day Looms”, I sent up a prayer immediately that God would send a new child to your family. Congratulations to you & Boo.

  86. Heather Says:

    That’s fantabulous news!

  87. Maggie Says:

    I am guilty of lurking - but I adore your blog and I am so thrilled that you are one step closer to a new addition!

    My fingers are crossed that the rest of the process is speedy and painless - and that it ends (quickly!) with a brand new kiddo in your home!

  88. Earth Girl Says:

    I’ve been holding my breath and just exhaled, but a few happy tears came out with the exhale also. I love it!

  89. Tiger Lamb Girl Says:

    Oh T! I’m so pleased for you all. And for the little angel you’re about to welcome into your family.

    Sounds like you’ve got some pretty balanced people on your side and the sun really does shine from their asses;).

    xo

  90. Mom101 Says:

    WHOO WHOO WHOO WHOO WHOOOOO!!!

    I can’t think I’d be happier if it were me. Huge congrats, T.

  91. Anna Says:

    What fantastic news…. I can’t wait to read all about the next installments…fun times ahead

  92. deb Says:

    Congratulations. I’m so happy for you guys and the new child you’ll be bringing into your family.

  93. Momma Em Says:

    Whooo Hoooo! *Phoebe style*

    So happy for you! And even though I was recently pregnant I certainly won’t be mad at you. Just don’t forget that you are also forgoing the horror of child birth. and that ain’t no little thing!

  94. SleepyNita Says:

    Thank goodness! or I was gong to go open a can of whoop ass on your behalf!

  95. J. Says:

    CONGRATS BABY!!!
    But just how in the world did they find out about your blog???

  96. Debi Says:

    WOO HOO!! Knew it had to be good news. Almost suggested you give them the Blog addy. This is some great stuff. Your kids are spoiled in a stable loving way. Its just my favorite blog of all times. Keep up the good work and can’t wait to meet your new little girl/boy. Debi

  97. jen Says:

    hallefuckinglulah.

    i am thinking of balmy july nights, mojitos and whispered secrets. and now this.

    i love you, girl.

  98. Denice Says:

    Woo Hoo! Congratulations! So glad that it has all worked out for you.

  99. Mitch McDad Says:

    You can adopt me if you want.

  100. Hally Says:

    OK… so they’ve read this blog. But have they read the other one, too????

    Hongera.

    It means congratulations in Swahili!

  101. Kelley Says:

    100 responses! I started to read them and then my eyes glassed over, so for the hundreth time…

    WHOOOTTT!!!!!

    And how on earth do they know about the blog?

  102. Ruth Dynamite Says:

    YESSSSSSSSS!

    I am over the moon for you and your family - not to mention the dear child who will soon join your ranks. So thrilled. Big hugs.

  103. motherbumper Says:

    HIGH FIVE!

    and I knew it all along ;)

  104. nomotherearth Says:

    So happy for you! Well deserved. Here’s to many happy times ahead.

  105. Bob Says:

    that is terrific news. I am so happy for you.

  106. Steph Says:

    FANTASTIC!! I always knew you were the good kind of crazy. A little crazy just keeps things interesting. And you’re certainly interesting, RM!

    I’m doing cartwheels for you, I’m so excited! (((HUGS)))

  107. Carrie Says:

    Yay!!!
    So crazy means you have all the more reason to embarass your children in public right?

  108. jacquie Says:

    Wow great news! A child has hit the “jackpot” and doesn’t even know it yet.

  109. tinakala Says:

    Congratulations, all of you!

  110. Mrs. Mustard Says:

    WOOT! Now continues your elephant pregnancy!

  111. Gunfighter Says:

    Congratulations, T! I always knew it would work out.

  112. Lisa b Says:

    Congratulations!
    they know?? Holy shit!

  113. Lotus Carroll Says:

    Oh, how exciteratingly wonderful! Congratulations, you!!!

  114. se7en Says:

    Well congratulations!! How about that!!

    I’m happy for ya!!

    8)

  115. Snapper Says:

    Go you!!! (you all…)

  116. bubblewench Says:

    You and your family totally deserve this! Congratulations. Awesome.

  117. crunchy carpets Says:

    don’t they know that you HAVE to be insane to have kids?

    That is MOST excellent news…

  118. crazymumma Says:

    Who, after reading your blog, could not think you are wonderful and honest and loving.

    That is going to be some lucky child who gets your family as their own.

    Congrats Redneck. You totally deserve it!

  119. Ally Says:

    Congrats! This is great news. And I can’t believe they know about the blog. That is WILD!

  120. Christina Says:

    I’m completely giddy for you! I hope you will be on the short list for a little kiddo who needs you soon.

  121. Erin - ExpectingExecutive Says:

    And the universe does love you. Many, many congratulations.

  122. Heather Says:

    Bwa ha ha ha! TRIUMPH!!! YEAH!!! And I was wondering if they knew about the blog… LOL

  123. JustAnotherMama Says:

    I’ve been a lurker around these parts for… well I guess 9 months or so. I found you right after I found out I was pregnant with my #3. I read your blog on Sept 17… Season of Grief. It just so happens that I was in labor when I read that blog. You’ve put a whole new perspective on unconditional love. Thank you!!

    I am so glad you are getting a child! There is a little boy/girl out there who is going to be very lucky to have you for a mama. CONGRATULATIONS!!!

  124. Janet Says:

    delurking to say YEAH!!….I am an adoptive mom too, it’s a fun journey with many turns!

  125. CharmingDriver Says:

    YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  126. mothergoosemouse Says:

    Oh my god, how is it that I’m just now seeing this?!

    I’m thrilled to pieces for you and Boo and the kids. My hormones are stampeding all over the place…sniffle sniffle SNORT. Absolutely overjoyed for you guys!!

  127. Mommapeas Says:

    Crazy is good. Come to think of it, I don’t know if I’ve ever met a Mommy who isn’t a tad crazy. Maybe it’s the degree of crazy they should measure.

    Congratulations!

  128. amanda Says:

    Back again, because, damn, this just made me so happy! Pardon what will surely be obsessive checking in until the next post.

  129. chris Says:

    hooray for you! here’s to crazy mothers every where- if you can’t be crazy qith your kids, you’re missing half the fun! may your paperwork fly like the wind and may the new kid be home soon. amen!

  130. Mad Hatter Says:

    Late to the party but WHHAAA HOOO.

  131. my float Says:

    Hoo-freakin’-ray. At last. Someone somewhere got it right.

    Oh and hi you nice adoption people. We love you LONG time.

    Go RM.

  132. velocibadgergirl Says:

    Congratulations! Great news!

  133. Secret Agent Mama Says:

    What a blessing! Crazy’s the new black, btw!!

  134. kittenpie Says:

    That’s fantastic! And wow, even with them knowing about the blog and all? (And HOW do they know about the blog? Are they like, the FBI or something? That’s a little creepy.)

  135. Alli ~Mrs. Fussypants Says:

    Congrats! I am so happy for you and the family!

  136. VerrySherry Says:

    I’m so happy for you. you deserve such good news!

  137. Jessica (aka. Rose) Says:

    OMFG! I just got chills. That is the BEST news EVER.
    Congratulations!
    WHOOOHOOOOO

  138. moosh in indy Says:

    If I could muster up the courage and any time to swear now would be the time…here…I’ll try…
    FUDGE YEAH!
    Oh, still don’t have it in me.
    Thought that counts.

  139. Kelly Says:

    They’d have to have been crazy themselves not to realize what an awesome mom you are, and could be out there to another child.

    Simply beautiful news. And after reading your tribute to missing your Bug, it’s brought the smile right back to my teary face.

  140. Lindsey Says:

    Congrats!!!!

  141. canape Says:

    Congratulations!!!! That is awesome news!

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